Rekindling The Flame Of Love

Love makes the world go round. We all want to find that special one who can set our axis spinning. And, when we do, things have a habit of falling into place. The early days are blissful. They’re full of fireworks and magic. Sometimes, that lasts for a year or more. Other times, the magic may start fading after six months. But, you can be sure that it won’t last forever. And, would you want them to? Falling in love is exhausting. It’s not practical to expect your relationship to stay that way forever. And, it would be hard work if it did.

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Instead, you should reach a place where you feel comfortable and content. You’ll go from falling in love to being in love. Being in love may not be as exciting, but it’s special all the same. It’s natural for your passion to go from a flame to a fizzle. There’s nothing wrong with that. But, problems could arise if your partner stops returning your affections. Maintaining intimacy is important, no matter where you are in your relationship. It’s one of the key factors that will keep your relationship alive. That’s why it’s crucial you keep a healthy amount of intimacy between you. If you feel intimacy has been lacking, you may start to worry that you’re drifting apart. So, you should do everything possible to regain your closeness.

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As with any issues, communication is essential. We often fail to account for the fact that our partner can’t read our thoughts. It may be that they haven’t noticed the problem, or don’t realize that it upsets you. So, talk about what’s happening. You may find that there’s something else going on that’s distracting your partner. It’s important to keep the discussion free from accusation. Find out the best way to move forward from sites like Make a nice meal, and explain how you’re feeling. Then, let your partner speak. It may be that you both feel the same and agree to try harder. If it happens again down the line, repeat the process.

A lack of intimacy can also result from a lack of effort on either end. When we’re happy, we can get complacent about looks and attitudes. Have you stopped taking pride in your appearance? It’s time to start again. Get yourself looking good and see if it makes a difference. Try something new with your makeup, and buy a new outfit. You could even try whitening your gnashers with products like those mentioned on Stock up on some new lipsticks and draw as much attention to your mouth as possible. Kissing is a fantastic way to regain intimacy. It may start slow, but it should soon lead to more.

Remember, too, that patience is essential. You may not be able to solve the problem overnight. But, this is by no means a relationship killer. Trials like these are what make you stronger. All you have to do is find a way through them.

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  1. What if the partner has no effort, and the other kept going and kept it until one pushes aside all those things. What does one do, when everything is ignored and kept it at that?

      1. I want to really i want to, but in the way my spouse the way she is really might look at it that “there is no problem, why make one?” and yes that line was given from her to me at about five times since last year.

      2. I’m sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, there is a problem, because you see one so I hope she’ll change her mind…

      3. The only hope i cling to and make an important that is to put all these aside, and i have to bear anything of all sorts, coz our daughter needs me and i dun want a heavier weight i carry now, and make it much heavier than it is. The only hope i will ever need is with the divine inspiration and influence. And yes, You. of all things i do feel The mighty archangel Uriel somehow nudged you to give me a fire that lit my dawn. Thank you milady thank you so much.

      4. I wish all the best for your family and I hope that your marriage one day will be full of sparkles as it probably was at the beginning! ☺ (Everything is possible!)

  2. Being committed to each other requires effective communication tactics, consistent intimacy, which isn’t always purely physical, and strict devotion to one another’s well being. The equation for a solidified relationship requires hard work, perseverance, patience and faith.

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  4. This is really valuable advice – too often perfectly functional relationships break up because people just haven’t figured out how to love and be loved. Thank you for sharing.

  5. I think of Andy Grammer’s “Fresh Eyes”, while pondering this post. It’s been six years since my wife departed this life, but each element of the above presented itself, for us to work through, even during her illness. We got it done.

  6. in emotional relationships patience It is a vital virtue, “because only a burning patience will lead to the attainment of a splendid happiness” (cited Pablo Neruda)

  7. Hola guapa! Soy Laura del Blog Casual It. Como seguidora de mi blog, quería avisarte de que he cambiado de direccion y ahora el blog es
    Te invito a que te suscribas a este nuevo blog ya que no recibiras mas contenido del antiguo, aunque estés suscrita porque he dejado de publicar ahi. Te dejo la direccion del nuevo
    ¡Espero verte por allí! Besos.

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