That’s my first post in the category of love, so let’s start with:
There can be an endlessness of the answers.
My first answer would be:
Love is about forgetting about yourself and giving your all to significant other.
In today’s world I would say that men are more often tempted by the devil.
I’m not saying that only men destroy the relationship. Hell no, as far as I’m concerned “not good women” are most often the ones, because of whom the realtionship don’t exist anymore.
I meant that men are more tempted by the stuff around us, such as: pornography, TV, music videos etc. and other women who wear clothes- “almost no clothes”.
Men are the ones who think about sex more often, so I would say that’s their Achilles’ heel.
So if the devil needs to choose, he chooses the men, because it’s the easiest way to destroy the whole family- wife and the kids, because the man is the head of the family.
The very said thing is that the today’s world does everything to destroy the values (such as family) from the Bible.
That’s why it’s very important to remember about these values, rely on them and use them as a strong guiding force.
As I said before men are the ones who think a lot about sex, so it’s very important to take care of the sexual needs (and not only) of your man, but it’s also very important for the man to take a really good care of his woman.
Let me tell you how I see this.
I don’t need a big house, I don’t care that much about money to buy fancy stuff, these things are not important for me.
But I’m pretty exclusive / luxurious if it comes to my needs in a relationship:
- exclusivity: “You’re the only one”
- attention: “I see only you in the crowd of women”
- adoration: “You’re beautiful”, “You look gorgeous/ beautiful/ amazing”, “You’re the best”, “You’re very good at…”
- recognition: “I appreciate you”, “Thank you”, “I’m proud of you”
- confirmation: “I’m with you and for us”
- acceptation: “I respect you”, “I adore you”, “I admire you”
- affirmation: “I love you”, “I trust you”
Now, don’t you also think that it works both ways?
If yes, then let’s just say:
Treat your significant other, how you want to be treated! 🙂
Simple as that ;).